First off, don't be utterly convinced with this paranoia explaination.

While its true there are quite a few ways to give somone the affliction, it is entirely possible that some one is messing with you.

I don't really have the time to experiment with the skill, but if you are using Ansi, trying playing with the paranoia curse and seeing if actual bondings look a little different from fake ones.

Color wise, I mean.

Giliad

Written by my hand on the 13th of Cloudburst, in the year 1001.